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REVIEW: ‘Wonder Park’ is a wonderful tale about joy during trials

REVIEW: ‘Wonder Park’ is a wonderful tale about joy during trials

‘Wonder Park’ is a film that outperforms its trailer. No, it won’t be the best animated film of the year, but it includes positive messages not seen in most family films.

June is a young girl with a big imagination and an even bigger smile.

Each day, she and her mother sit in June’s room and design an imaginary theme park that June “brings to life” through stuffed animals, boxes and colorful toys.

In June’s imagination, families visit a park called “Wonder Land” that is hosted by talking animals—Boomer the blue bear, Peanut the monkey and Steve the porcupine. 

And when June asks for creative help from her mom, she gets a gentle rebuff.  

“I like it when the ideas come from you,” her mom says, smiling. “Now, think.”

Her make-believe theme park covers the room. Occasionally, she even designs a “real” outdoor roller coaster that stretches across the neighbors’ yards and attracts dozens of friends.  

For June, life couldn’t be better.

But then her mom gets deadly sick and has to visit the hospital. Sad and depressed, June packs her stuffed animals and toys into boxes and puts them away. Wonder Land, it seems, is closed for the season.

The animated movie Wonder Park (PG) opens in theaters this weekend, telling the story of a girl who loses her imagination when her favorite playmate—her mom—becomes ill. The film stars Jennifer Garner (Miracles From Heaven) as the mom, Brianna Denski as June, and Ken Hudson Campbell (Home Alone) as Boomer.

Wonder Park is a film that outperforms its trailer. No, it won’t be the best animated film of the year, but it includes positive messages not seen in most family films.

The animation is colorful, and the funny moments are truly funny. It’s also (mostly) void of potty humor. That always gets bonus points from me.

All of this makes up for a slightly disjointed plot.

Warning: Spoilers ahead!

(Scale key: none, minimal, moderate, extreme)

Violence/Disturbing

Minimal. June accidentally rides her real-life homemade roller coaster car through traffic. In her imagination, we see animals survive a few harrowing moments on a roller coaster ride. The film’s most disturbing scene involves hundreds of “Chimpanzombies” chasing her. They look like small harmless monkeys. 

Sexuality/Sensuality/Nudity/Romance

None. One animal has a crush on another animal. At the end of the film, he gets a kiss on the cheek.

Coarse Language

None. An unfinished “son of a.” Three instances of “gosh.”

Other Positive Elements

June’s mom and dad are role model parents. They love her unconditionally. The dad also tells the mom that they’re not dating enough. June’s friends and family try cheering her up when her mom becomes ill.

Life Lessons

The film’s lessons can be understood only by revealing the plot (Spoilers ahead!). After the mother becomes ill, June’s father sends her to summer math camp. But June runs away with the goal of hiking home through the woods. It is there that she discovers a run-down theme park called—you guessed it—Wonder Land. The animals tell her that the park was in operation until “the darkness” arrived (The darkness is an eerie-looking swirling cloud in the sky). June then works to bring Wonder Land back to life.

The symbolism is ripe. Wonder Land represents her imagination—perhaps even her joy—while “the darkness” represents everything that stole her joy. The darkness may even represent her.

The movie has multiple lessons: finding joy in the midst of tragedy, re-discovering your imagination, and encouraging others who are facing trials.

Worldview/Application

Wonder Park raises solid questions about tragedy, even if its answers are incomplete.

June says her mother would not want her to be sad. “She got sick… and I got scared—so scared of losing her that I lost myself. She would hate to see how I changed,” June says.

The movie, though, doesn’t give us a remedy. It’s impossible to find true hope during trials without the hope found in Scripture (Rom. 5:2-5). Christians have hope during tragedy because they have an eternal perspective that the world cannot provide.    

Discussion Questions

1. Have you ever experienced a trial that caused you to lose joy?

2. What does the movie get right and wrong about finding joy during trials?

3. What is the key to discovering joy during trials?

Entertainment rating: 3 out of 5 stars. Family-friendly rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars.

Rated PG for some mild thematic elements and action.

PHOTO CREDIT: Paramount Pictures

Millennial Monday: Why a dating checklist doesn’t work

Millennial Monday: Why a dating checklist doesn’t work

Have you ever made a list of requirements when it comes to your future husband or wife? I definitely used to have one, and it ranged from “important” to “not important at all” in terms of content.

I used to have things like “plays the guitar” and “is taller than six feet.” Under more important things would be “is a Christ follower” and “loves my family.”

Somewhere along the way, our culture adopted the practice of making a list of “must haves” when it comes to dating. I think this has been a detrimental practice that has led to people missing out on someone who God may have picked for them to marry.

I was listening to the “That sounds fun” podcast hosted by Annie F. Downs last weekend when she touched on this subject as she sat down with a newly married couple. The bride pointed out that while the groom checked all of the boxes on her hypothetical list, she didn’t technically check all the boxes on her groom’s list.

The groom went on to say that if he had been so close minded to only look for a woman who met every single requirement he made, he would have missed out on the woman God planned for him to marry.

This is something I see so much in people my age. We’re told to have high standards when it comes to dating, but some misunderstand that as having impossible standards that people cannot meet.

It’s almost comical to me that we, such flawed people, think we know what’s best for ourselves.

Don’t get me wrong, there are things of which you should not compromise when looking for your future spouse, such as being equally yoked, “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?” (2 Cor. 6:14)

But all too often I see people my age, in their mid-20s or older, absolutely mystified as to why they can’t find anyone that meets ALL of their requirements.

This is hypocritical behavior. Take a look at yourself and ask yourself, would you want to be held to such a standard? When God sent his Son to the earth to die for our sins, did he say, “Only under these conditions will my Son die for your sins?”

No, he poured His grace out on us, an undeserving human race. I’m not saying you need to date someone who isn’t good for you, don’t misunderstand me.

What I am saying is that maybe you should take a look at your list of “requirements” and evaluate for which reasons you made the list. Are some of your requirements superficial and fleeting?

Will some of these things matter 20 years down the road when you’re nearing retirement, and you’re looking at spending all of your time with this one person? Will they matter when it’s three in the morning and the baby is awake again and you’re exhausted? Will they matter when it comes to life’s big moments?

We need to simplify. There is one thing that should be of the utmost importance to you, brother or sister in Christ, and that is: If you look for Jesus in your future spouse and there is evidence of Him in their life, you’ve already met the single most important requirement of all.

Proverbs 31:10 says, “Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

This passage of Scripture is usually only used in reference to women. I think, however, it can be applied to men as well. No one is going to be their cute, 20-year-old self forever. However, their heart and what or whom they serve will remain the same.

I encourage you in this time of your life to remove the blinders that you may have worn until this point and look for whom God has chosen for you, rather than what you’ve imagined for yourself. He knows what is best for us. Trust Him when it comes to your future.

DHD: Six Comments I Heard This Week

DHD: Six Comments I Heard This Week

Greetings!

I’m going to be brief. Here are six quotes I read or heard this week.

I’ll let you mentally “munch” on these.

1. “By casting all disagreement as hate-based — and by destroying those with whom we disagree on a character level — we worsen both hate and politics… Enough of the moral cowardice. It’s just fine for Joe Biden to think Mike Pence is a decent guy. And it’s pretty indecent to disagree”—Ben Shapiro

2. “For the distinct minority of Democrats who describe themselves as pro-life, the party and its presidential candidates offer a bleak picture”—Tom Strode

3. “On the issue of same-sex marriage, most conservative Christians are simply interpreting Scripture faithfully. It’s not that we’re allowing our prejudice against homosexuality to change how we interpret Scripture, but rather that we are merely refusing to follow the culture’s lead in twisting Scripture to claim support for what God’s Word clearly opposes”—Joe Carter

4. “Words are not nearly as useful as silence. Social media is a useful medium for some things, but anger is not one of them”—Justin Earley

5. “I’m going to fight this, and I’m going to keep working. And with the love and support of my family and friends and with the help of your prayers also, I plan to beat the low survival rate statistics for this disease. Truth told, I have to! Because under the terms of my contract, I have to host Jeopardy for three more years!”—Alex Trebeck

6. “I would boo me too if I were the other team”—Russell Westbrook

REVIEW: ‘Captain Marvel’ delivers a positive role model for girls

REVIEW: ‘Captain Marvel’ delivers a positive role model for girls


The much-anticipated Captain Marvel opens this weekend. It’s a fun ride, but it includes a few content problems that will concern some parents.

 

Her name is Vers, and she’s a Starforce soldier from Hala, the capital planet of the alien Kree civilization.   

At least, that’s what she’s always been told.

She remembers little about her past, but she often has flashbacks to a more peaceful time when she was a happy child and then a free-spirited teenager on another planet—a planet that had beings that looked just like her. You know, human beings.

But enough with the reminiscing. She’s currently on an intergalactic mission against Kree’s long-time alien nemesis, the lizard-faced Skrulls, who have the ability to change into any shape they desire. Vers has her own powers. She has super strength and can fire energy projectiles—think, “laser balls”—from her hand.    

She’s nearly unstoppable. Yet during a spaceship battle with the Skrulls, she is forced to crash land on planet C-53—Earth—and continue her search for the bad guys. Pretty soon, our planet is caught up in a cosmic fight we didn’t expect. And Vers—better known as Carol Danvers—starts to realize she formerly lived on this strange rock.

The film Captain Marvel (PG-13) opens this weekend, telling how Danvers discovers who she is and then becomes the most powerful female superhero in the Marvel Cinematic Universe. It is a film that reveals the origins of Captain Marvel but also the origins of other Marvel elements, including Nick Fury, his famous eyepatch and even the word “Marvel.” It also quickly answers the obvious question: Why is Captain Marvel void of emotion in the trailers?

“There’s nothing more dangerous to a warrior than emotion,” she is told. “Humor is a distraction.”

It stars Brie Larson (Room) as Danvers/Captain Marvel, Samuel L. Jackson (Avengers series) as Fury and Ben Mendelsohn as Talos, the leader of the Skrulls.

Set in 1995, Captain Marvel is the first Marvel movie with a female superhero in a film to herself and the first Marvel film with a female director, too (Anna Boden co-directed with Ryan Fleck).

It differs in other ways. It relies less on CGI (the Skrulls are actors with masks and makeup) and it includes a few Star Wars-like space battles. It has no romantic angle.

Those are acceptable (and even fine) changes, but there’s a lot else to like. Larson’s character isn’t sexualized. She has role model qualities. In many ways, she’s someone you wouldn’t mind your daughter emulating (minus the fact she mixes it up often with the bad guys).

Still, Captain Marvel is rated PG-13, meaning it has content that will concern some parents.     

Warning: minor/moderate spoilers!

(Scale key: none, minimal, moderate, extreme)

Violence/Disturbing

Moderate. Captain Marvel has plenty of violence, but it’s less than that of the popular Avengers films. It’s mostly bloodless, too. Danvers spars with a male partner (She wins by blasting him with a projectile). We see a battle with laser guns. Someone is shot and dies. A somewhat disturbing scene shows Danvers suspended upside down as Skrulls extract her memory (It’s a lightweight form of torture). On multiple occasions, she whips 10 or more people by punching, kicking and using her super-energy powers. We see an autopsy performed on a deceased Skrull. The Skrulls’ transformation from alien to human being is impressive movie magic but could give children nightmares. A plane crashes.       

Sexuality/Sensuality/Nudity

None/minimal. Danvers’ suit is form-fitting, although the camera doesn’t ogle her figure. In fact, for much of the film, she’s in regular clothes. A young woman is seen in short shorts at the beach. Two men, at the Skrull autopsy, make it a point to find out what sex the Skrull is (We don’t see what they see). We see a nude female mannequin.

Coarse Language

Minimal/moderate. About 16 coarse words: h-ll 5, d–n 3, a– 3, s–t 2, OMG 2, b—-rds 1.

Other Positive Elements

It’s refreshing to have a lead female in a PG-13 film who isn’t scantily dressed and sexualized. If only Hollywood held to that standard for every film.

Other Stuff You Might Want To Know

Captain Marvel doesn’t include the phrase “girl power,” but the concept is woven throughout the film. During a flashback scene (which we see twice), she is told by a male pilot that flying isn’t for women. She is told (by men and women) to control her emotions. Then, in the movie’s final minutes, she beats up the bad guys as No Doubt’s Just A Girl plays in the background.

Life Lessons

Carol Danvers, like most superheroes, clings to what is good and fights evil. She says early in the film: “I want to serve.” Later, we see her put generosity and integrity on display. She’s courageous.

The Skrulls teach us that looks can be deceiving, especially when it comes to friends, acquaintances and strangers.

The film’s primary theme—discovering who you are—can teach us a few lessons, too, even if we don’t have amnesia. As Christians, our identity is in Christ (2 Cor. 5:17, 1 Pet. 2:9). He has a plan for each of us (Jer. 29:11). 

Worldview/Application

“Control your emotions.” It has a negative ring in some circles. It’s what Captain Marvel is told, over and over, at the outset.

Yet Scripture tells us to control our emotions. We are to be “slow to anger” (Prov. 16:32), to guard against fleshly impulses (Gal. 5:16-24), and to display self-control (1 Pet. 1:5-6). Perhaps Captain Marvel’s mentors were onto something.

Finally, Marvel itself deserves applause for giving us a female superhero who gets attention for her talents, not her looks. Hollywood’s history is filled with films that did just the opposite. Young girls need the former message, not the latter.    

Partners

Hertz, the WNBA, Dave & Busters, Citizen, Alaska Airlines, Synchrony and Visible are partnering with Captain Marvel.

What Works

Rediscovering the 1990s. We experience slow-as-molasses Internet, UNO cards and a Blockbuster store. Marvel even set up a retro 1995-like Captain Marvel website: Marvel.com/CaptainMarvel. It’s a hilarious step back in time.

What Doesn’t

The first half hour gets lost in science fiction detail. The last half hour has one or two plot holes. 

Discussion Questions

1. How are female superheroes different from male superheroes? Should they be different?

2. Captain Marvel is told to control her emotions. Is that a good or a bad thing?

3. Name three positive characteristics of Captain Marvel. Can you think of any negative ones?

Entertainment rating: 3 out of 5 stars. Family-friendly rating: 3 out of 5 stars.

Rated PG-13 for sequences of sci-fi violence and action, and brief suggestive language.

Millennial Monday: Why a dating checklist doesn’t work

Millennial Monday: A Christian’s duty to advocate for the oppressed

“First they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out—because I am not a socialist.

Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out—because I am not a trade unionist.

Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—because I am not a Jew.

Then they came for me and there was no one left to speak for me.”

—Martin Niemoller

I am reading “The Faithful Spy: Dietrich Bonhoeffer and the Plot to Kill Hitler.” If you are a big fan of history, especially with the time period of WWII, this book is a must read.

I am 75 percent of the way through the book, and last night as I read, a quote from one of Bonhoeffer’s esteemed colleagues made me stop and put the quote in a note on my phone.

Maybe you’ve heard the quote before, I know I had, but as I read about the gross injustice that was the Holocaust, I see eerie similarities with our world today. Even people who proclaim themselves to be Christians, have turned their backs to the gross injustices going on all around them. This was something that Bonhoeffer struggled with as leaders of the Church blindly joined the Reich Church under Hitler’s leadership.

The same goes for today. There are people groups that are under constant persecution that I won’t specifically name just for the reason of leaving politics 100 percent out of this blog post, because I don’t think this is a matter of politics. I think it is a matter of humanity.

Just as the Holocaust had aspects of politics involved, it was not just political. It was 100 percent a crisis of humanity.

Have you ever asked yourself the questions “how would I respond if I were living in the time of the Holocaust?” or “How would I respond if I were living in a time where slavery was accepted?”

Unfortunately, our world today mirrors the world of the past that allowed such atrocities to mankind. Do you find yourself advocating for the victims of these horrendous sins?

Bonhoeffer said,

“Silence in the face of evil is itself evil: God will not hold us guiltless.
Not to speak is to speak.
Not to act is to act.”

I challenge you today, friend, that when you see injustice to your fellow man, speak up. Don’t think that if an issue doesn’t pertain to you that it won’t affect you or even your children in the future.

James 1:27 says this, “Pure and undefiled religion before our God and Father is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself unstained by the world.” (HCSB)

Proverbs 31:8-9 says, “Speak up for those who have no voice, for the justice of all who are dispossessed. Speak up, judge righteously, and defend the cause of the oppressed and the needy.” (HCSB)

When I was growing up, my mom would always say “Delayed obedience is disobedience” taken from the scripture Psalm 119:60 which says, “I hurried, not hesitating to keep Your commands.”

He commands us to take action and speak up for the oppressed, without limits. He doesn’t say speak up for the oppressed who were only born in America or look like you. He doesn’t say speak up for the oppressed when it’s most convenient. He doesn’t say speak up for the oppressed only when it won’t put you in danger. He says speak up for the oppressed, period. Have you done so lately?

DHD: Six Comments I Heard This Week

DHD: U.S. Senate, Westbrook, Family Worship, Methodists, Greenway, Safe Travels

Greetings!

Much has happened this week involving the cultural climate of our country. I’ll give my take on some of the bigger stories, as well as offer some interesting articles that I recently read.

Here we go!

1. ‘Culture of Death’ proceeds to influence U.S. Senate, society

In 1995, Pope John Paul II used the term “Culture of Death” in an address, presenting concerns of abortion as an individual right.

He declared, “Choices once unanimously considered criminal and rejected by the common moral sense are gradually becoming socially acceptable.”

“Gradually,” the former pope said 14 years ago. Fast forward to this week and see where the accepted view of abortion progressed to basically include a true form of infanticide.

I’m specifically talking about this week’s U.S. Senate ruling against the Born Alive Abortion Survivor’s Protection Act. The bill was described as requiring the healthcare practitioner “To exercise the same degree of professional skill, care and diligence to preserve the life and health of the child, as he or she would to any other child born alive at the same gestational age.”

This all has to do with mindset. Want to know why it’s so difficult to eliminate entirely the practice of abortion? Because there are those in society, especially among elected officials, who believe the reason for opposing abortion is to “control women.” These misguided people will aggressively defend this flawed view to the point of defending the practice of putting to death a baby who overcame a failed abortion.

National Review’s Alexandra DeSanctis summarized the Senate’s ruling correctly: “To oppose the bill would reveal the ghastly, consistent principle of the abortion-rights movement — that a child’s rights depend not on her size or location, but on whether she is wanted by her mother.”

It’s that simple, yet it’s not that easy to overcome. Albert Mohler’s opening point on the Feb. 26 edition of The Briefing is an excellent dialogue.

“The pro-abortion movement is actually becoming an extended satire on Alice in Wonderland,” Mohler said. “Words don’t matter. Arguments are thrown at the air. It is simply a matter of making every desperate argument against a pro-life bill imaginable. Even in this case when we’re not talking about pre-natal life, we’re not talking about human life in the womb, we’re talking about a baby that has unquestionably been born alive, even in the context of a botched abortion.”

2. Russ offers parental advice to Denver dad

This topic is a little deflated considering the Oklahoma City Thunder are not doing well at this point. But I will still give credence to Russell Westbrook who took a moment during the Thunder’s game at Denver this week to help a dad sitting courtside with his son. The young boy intentionally made contact with Westbrook in the middle of the contest, so the Thunder point guard stopped to tell the dad he needed to take better care of his son and not let him interfere with the game.

A few critics bashed Westbrook (the same ones who criticize him about everything), but many commended him. I don’t know exactly what he said to the dad, but you could see he offered a friendly handshake to the boy. I also noticed that ushers came up after Russ’ little talk to confront the courtside fans, so it appears he wasn’t the only one who was concerned about the incident.

Westbrook has his issues, and they are well documented. There are things he does I wish he would not do, but I do know he intends to come across as a family man, and he cherishes his children.

Videos are shown of Russ bringing his little man, Noah, with him to pre-game workouts. I saw him with Noah in the stands during an Oklahoma City Blue (Thunder’s G-League team) game. He also teared up during an interview when he was asked about his newborn twin girls.

His critics have legitimate arguments to make about Russ’ flaws. But to find fault in him offering constructive criticism to a father—especially while he is in the middle of a game and when he is in ultra-competitive mode (meaning, I think he showed some restraint)—I think that reveals the flaws of his critics.

3. More parental instruction

WordSlingers blogger Ryan Smith has a great post this week on how to have family worship time with young children. Check out “Family Worship Is Hard—And Worth it.”

One of my favorite lines in Ryan’s blog is about a parent singing worship songs with kids. “You may not be able to carry a tune but don’t worry,” he said. “Your kids don’t need you to be a great singer; they need you to be a faithful parent.”

4. Historic Methodist moment involving homosexuality

I learned a lot about the history of the Methodist Church this week. This is due to what is considered “Church History Made Before Our Eyes,” as Mohler wrote in response to a monumental decision made during a special General Conference of the United Methodist Church. A rather close vote among UMC leaders determined that the denomination will uphold the biblical teaching of the church regarding marriage and sexuality. The final vote, as Mohler reported, was 438-384 or 53 percent to 47 percent.

Obviously, this is contradictory to how society is trending. Also, this undoubtedly will lead to a major split among the denomination. One fascinating observation was how church representatives outside the United States, specifically from Africa and the Philippines, greatly factored in the voting result.

Regarding the social trend, I blogged about this five years ago, how we as a society have gone from tolerance to approval to acceptance as far as the expected way to view homosexuality. If you are not in the “acceptance” camp, you are considered a hateful person.

Not only is the UMC’s vote to uphold the teaching of biblical marriage and sexuality historic, it is also counter-cultural by today’s standards.

5. A New Day with Greenway at Southwestern Seminary

Adam Greenway was approved this week to be the new president of Southwestern Seminary. Board members elected the former dean at Southern Seminary on Feb. 27, and Greenway, according to Baptist Press, does not intend to make a replica of his former workplace.

“I have no intention of trying to come and trying to create a miniaturized version of Southern or a caricature of Southern here,” Greenway said. “I do not believe that Southwestern needs to import another institution’s legacy. We simply need to reinvigorate and retell the great legacy and history of this seminary for a new generation.”

He pointed out that Southwestern has a heritage of bringing people together who may have differences of opinion on secondary theological matter but are committed to fulfilling the Great Commission and supporting the local church, missions, evangelism, preaching and pastoral ministry.

It sounds like Greenway knows how to lead well in his new post.

6. International packing

For three consecutive years I made travel excursions outside of the United States. This was quite a big deal for me considering I’ve never left North America (except for one trip to Mexico in high school) until I was 44.

In 2016, I went on a mission trip to Paris, France (no, not Texas). In 2017, my wife and I celebrated our 10th anniversary by visiting Ireland, which was one of my favorite trips of my life, and I hope to return there some day and spend a week in Killarney.

Last year, I made a rather impromptu visit (meaning it was decided in less than three months) to South Africa to work the NBA Africa Game. This whirlwind experience lasted less than three days, but I can now say I’ve been to Africa.

Since I’m such the world traveler, I found a great read about how to pack with safety in mind for international travels. Many of these tips I’ve heard before, but they are great suggestions to consider. If you are planning to travel abroad for your first time, consider this blog a good resource.